“Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her.” (stephen covey) Don’t base your relationship around feelings. Feelings come and go like the wind. Love is a choice. As you develope the relationship and nuture it through loving them, you will be rewarded with the feelings of love.
Basically- I want you to know that you have a choice as to whether or not you’re a slave to you’re emotions. Decide to take control and respond accordingly to values, instead of circumstances.