What happens when you don’t care about someone, but would like to care, and you show them you don’t care by not reaching out to them, except in rare occurrences, in which case they respond, but only to find that they equally don’t care? What if you want someone to care but they really don’t care, and you want to show them you care without caring too much, but every effort to show them you care even a little bit in order to retain their interest comes off as caring too entirely?