I see a woman and I see her heart
I see what they want
What they crave
The attention
The love
And I give that to them in a way they can accept and feel good about
Not in a selfish way.
Maybe it’s called seduction
I just see the lack within them, and I want to fill it and love them
I see it in all people
But with women it’s harder, because those good feelings always lead to more
You don’t want them to end
I study the art of the sale. The art of persuasion. The art of charisma. How to read people. How to influence their mood, their state of mind. How to emotionally evaluate people. To see past words and clothes and makeup and demeanor, and listen to what they are not saying
And this is not a magic trick, a flash of good feeling to appease the senses and enrapt the imagination in an temporary show of lust and desire and deception.
No, what I touch is deeper.
It is the heart, the void, the need for belonging, for acceptance of their true self, not their false self. The self that yearns for validation, even when it communicates the opposite.
This is my skill
This allows me to adapt to any situation.
With any company
Humans are mechanical animals
Everyone has the same basic needs
And when you can find a need that is unmet, an emotional need, under the facade… you will always connect.
I love people. And I have a lot of compassion
And sometimes I forget how important boundaries are,
Such as stepping into the physicality of a relationship, into sex and affection,
and the immediate vulnerability that this contains.
For lasting relationships it is important to refrain,
So I can develop a relationship with their character first.
If you don’t have an ego, you can adapt very quickly to anyone or anything
You become them.
William Dare 